It can sound rude to ask a person his or her age. In a world of youth-centric societies and media, a lot who are aging may take offense. Psychologically and emotionally, some people are simply not ready to accept or feel proud being a “senior citizen.”
One time, I was crossing a street where I saw a “multi-colored” woman. Her face was filled with lipstick and makeups. Dressing in a miniskirt with rainbow colors, topped by shining jewelry, she walked the street like a teenager. The thing is, her facial features and physique showed obvious signs of her age. She’s possibly around age 60 or 65 – a senior citizen who appears like an adult teenager!
Gloria Diaz, the first-ever Filipina to be crowned Miss Universe, is proud to be 65. In her newspaper interview over at The Philippine Star I’d been reading this morning, she said, “When we were younger, our main focus is ourselves. Whatever we’re doing, it’s about us, our clothes, our shoes, where we’re going. But as you get older, your focus shifts to your kids. And then it moves to your grandchildren. And then your partner. You become the last priority of yourself. All of a sudden, you realize your own mortality. You know that you have to eat well, sleep well, and you need fewer things.”
Gloria also remarked on a few more things she learned as she takes her journey to aging. “When you get to my age, you’re more relaxed. Before I would wear high heels, girdles, now I don’t have to. These days, I enjoy wearing rubber shoes or ‘step-in.'” She then added having a personal relationship with the Lord is her most important secret to successful aging.
We can all learn to age well and be healthy. We make the most of the time that remains. There is this awareness that we are simply not immortal. We prepare for the best life to come!